
Missing Love: The Marrying Man 〘Official〙
A Man Getting Married / A Man Who's Getting Married / A Married Man / A Marrying Man / Missing Love: A Married Man / ดวงใจที่หายไป A Marrying Man / 結婚的男人 / 결혼하는 남자
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Genres:Manhwa,Webtoon,Yaoi(BL),Adult,Mature,Smut,Drama,Psychological
🇬🇧EnglishTr From🇰🇷Korean
Publication:Original Publication:Ongoing
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Thrown into the ruthless world of gangsters as a prostitute, Geom has seen all the ugliest sides of humanity. After a brutal eight years of being off the grid, he reunites with Wooyeon, the man he once loved, to congratulate him on his upcoming marriage. Recognizing Wooyeon as a light within a very deep, dark abyss, Geom finds himself being drawn to him all over again. But with each of his ankles shackled by the twisted Rieder and the obsessive Prosecutor Lee, is there truly any hope of salvation?
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Chapters(61)
Chapter 20: TW
Chapter 32: [TW: Abuse & Pedophilia]
Chapter 35: [TW- SA]
Chapter 37: [TW- Abuse]
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Holy fuck this actually got an official ☠️ if you wanna get your heart destroyed this is the right series for you. There is a ton of sexual violence and rape (not between the leads) and it only is going to get worse the more you read. I rate this 8 I am absolutely devastated out of 10 I thought this was gonna be like pearl boy and there was gonna be fluff
Old review of this while I unfortunately had it fresh in my mind:
While I am emotionally attached to the main characters (mostly geom, wooyeon, and the girl friend) so I will admit I only keep going for them. The mindfuckery this thing has shown me is beyond comprehension. Heed the warnings made by uploader-san. The author didn't spare us and the more you keep going the worse it gets. After around chap35-40ish I think, the sexual violence geom faces just gets depicted more graphically. Nearly every chapter after 40 had even a panel or maybe it's entirely dedicated to the sexual violence, I gotta give props to the author whenever I think I have seen the worse yet they manage to come up with something worse. The chapters before it are sad, and you can't help but feel uneasy but it's mostly fluffy since wooyeon is geom's save haven, you just watch wooyeon care for geom and bring him some momentary happiness before we get hit with reality and we go back to witness geom's hell(which at first is less graphically depicted). Overall, if you are in for some god awful mindfuckery then this is for you, if you don't feel like witnessing forced prostitution and violence then maybe go find something else to read.

Old review of this while I unfortunately had it fresh in my mind:
While I am emotionally attached to the main characters (mostly geom, wooyeon, and the girl friend) so I will admit I only keep going for them. The mindfuckery this thing has shown me is beyond comprehension. Heed the warnings made by uploader-san. The author didn't spare us and the more you keep going the worse it gets. After around chap35-40ish I think, the sexual violence geom faces just gets depicted more graphically. Nearly every chapter after 40 had even a panel or maybe it's entirely dedicated to the sexual violence, I gotta give props to the author whenever I think I have seen the worse yet they manage to come up with something worse. The chapters before it are sad, and you can't help but feel uneasy but it's mostly fluffy since wooyeon is geom's save haven, you just watch wooyeon care for geom and bring him some momentary happiness before we get hit with reality and we go back to witness geom's hell(which at first is less graphically depicted). Overall, if you are in for some god awful mindfuckery then this is for you, if you don't feel like witnessing forced prostitution and violence then maybe go find something else to read.

My worst fear is me getting hit by a truck and reincarnating in this manwha
This manhwa is an irony in itself, the art is so beautiful but the story is heart wrenching. I had read in hopes of getting it better but it didn't, so i dropped it cuz i don't think I've it in me to continue it. I might pick this up only after knowing how it ends.
This is a very and I mean a very heavy story. It's deals with violence, sexual abuse, force prostitution and emotional mentality. There's alot of trauma. The story is not meant for everyone and as the story progresses, it gets worse and worse, You hope things get better but they don't and once we get those sweet relief moments, they come crashing down and taken away in an instant. So enjoy those sweet moments between Geom and Wooyeon while they last.
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But I do feel like this will have a happy ending but all the angst will be the center and the happiness is gonna be only at the very end.
There's a rumor that said it won't have a happy ending but I follow the author since the beginning and they said nothing about the ending. Maybe it might end in a bittersweet way instead of unhappy, who knows.
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Geom (MC), Wooyeon (ML) and Yeonseo (a girl who's very important to them) are good people who deserve the best. I know how BL readers can be but please don't hate the Yeonseo, she's truly kind.
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Edit: also the series likes to go back and forth with flashback and the present time but its gonna be a little hard to tell because the story uses black as the background. So be prepared for that
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But I do feel like this will have a happy ending but all the angst will be the center and the happiness is gonna be only at the very end.
There's a rumor that said it won't have a happy ending but I follow the author since the beginning and they said nothing about the ending. Maybe it might end in a bittersweet way instead of unhappy, who knows.
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Geom (MC), Wooyeon (ML) and Yeonseo (a girl who's very important to them) are good people who deserve the best. I know how BL readers can be but please don't hate the Yeonseo, she's truly kind.
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Edit: also the series likes to go back and forth with flashback and the present time but its gonna be a little hard to tell because the story uses black as the background. So be prepared for that
Everyone: on no! It's back😭 Me: :smirking: It's a canon event, bub!Am I willing to suffer with the uke in official as well? Yup, nobody's gonna stop me. Edit- it is going towards happy ending from what I saw from the raws🥹
I couldn’t handle the sexual abuse and dropped it near the end of the story, I heard some people say that there was a good resolution for Geom and Wooyeon so I might go back at it in a few months. Oh please, I see a lot of people simping for the white haired guy, but personally I just wanna see him beheaded.
I won't read this and will wait for the very end chapter and read that. If it doesn't look like the good ending for him based on comments then i guess i'm never reading it 🤷
This is already completed in Korean... And if you want something to look forward to... That one panel of Geom's face in the last chapter probably makes reading all this so worth it hahahaa
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Geom is a character that embodies the trope of "Cosmic Plaything" and "Trauma Conga Line". My beef with this story is that it is just so forced so it comes off as "Darkness induced Audience Apathy". Not exactly a good storytelling (for me anyway)
But that's the exact point or purpose of this story. To create a character that the author can make as miserable as possible. Which is fine except that his suffering has no other purpose other than just for suffering's sake. It's just there to make the story dark and edgy. There's no overarching theme to it. Or if there was, I must have missed it.
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The angst feels forced (for example, in that scene where Geom's team are talking about the first time they met him).
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I liked this story up until chapters 40 or so when it just became the same story told over and over again, that it became draining to read hahaha
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There are other Cosmic Plaything and characters with Trauma Conga Lines where their misery and character development is balanced. One very good example in Yashiro from Twiterring Birds Never Fly.
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Geom is a character that embodies the trope of "Cosmic Plaything" and "Trauma Conga Line". My beef with this story is that it is just so forced so it comes off as "Darkness induced Audience Apathy". Not exactly a good storytelling (for me anyway)
But that's the exact point or purpose of this story. To create a character that the author can make as miserable as possible. Which is fine except that his suffering has no other purpose other than just for suffering's sake. It's just there to make the story dark and edgy. There's no overarching theme to it. Or if there was, I must have missed it.
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The angst feels forced (for example, in that scene where Geom's team are talking about the first time they met him).
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I liked this story up until chapters 40 or so when it just became the same story told over and over again, that it became draining to read hahaha
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There are other Cosmic Plaything and characters with Trauma Conga Lines where their misery and character development is balanced. One very good example in Yashiro from Twiterring Birds Never Fly.
I will wait to find out whether this has a happy ending or not before embarking on it for my mental well being
Rape fetish passed of as “noir fiction” is still just rape fetish. It’s not psychological either, it tries to be deep but it’s just “look at how much I fetishize this persons pain and violations, that’s super deep right?” This one of definitely just for the rape fetishists that want to feel like they’re reading something poignant and profound. The artwork is ok, but the facial expressions are all very lackluster and everyone looks like they’re trying to make blue steel model faces. Also pissed that they’re calling sex trafficking and rape “noir fiction” when it’s something that happens to people every single day.
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hopefully he isn’t the ML, but this seems like a very sad story so imma go ahead and prepare myself


You know what scares me the most? The wise saying whose always said First love never works out...
Both of them loved Geom and his disappearance took a toll on them, you can tell just by this chapter alone that they both ended up depending on each other as they were the only ones left, its telling that maybe they took this comfort and respect for each other as romantic love when it's most like platonic love. Yeonseo is so kind and respectful giving Wooyeon time to see what he wants knowing he was more hurt in the past.
Damn if I were a guy I'd start masturbating by now
Wait why am I liking this EJKSSKAKALA
I HATE MYSELF FOR LIKING THIS BUT HE'S SO FUCKING HOT
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Wait why am I liking this EJKSSKAKALA
I HATE MYSELF FOR LIKING THIS BUT HE'S SO FUCKING HOT
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Notice how the sex scenes doesn't have any sounds or speech bubbles? hahaha. Never thought silemce would be so creepy. Also, yeah, we're gonna see Geom opening his mouth a lot. Smut scenes are usually supposed to be fanservice but all the smut scenes here are going to be fan disservice. For some reason, it's probably because of the artstyle, the body proportions, Geom's scrawny body , his facial expressions and how his mouth is always open, but I'm always put off by the smut scenes here. I've read a lot of dark BLs, Sadistic Beauty, Dark Fall, Pearl Boy, Easy Target, Gwanggong Series, Warehouse, Tree without roots, to name a few. It's the same reason why I drag on reading Killing Stalking, Bum's scrawny body also puts me off... Well, that may have been the intended purpose ...
I...
Umm...
Sir...
You are hot but can you not be a walking red flag 😭
Umm...
Sir...
You are hot but can you not be a walking red flag 😭
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